
The System of Sex: Spiritual Divorce and Why You Need One | Second Edition
$9.99
Sex is not just physical. It is emotional, hormonal, and deeply spiritual.
God created sex as a system that unites two souls into one body, mind, and spirit.
This means that when sex occurs outside of covenant, the bond remains long after the person is gone.
This is why:
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You think about someone you don’t even want anymore
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You feel connected to someone who hurt you
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Your body still responds to someone from your past
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You’ve tried to move on, but something still has a claim on you
This is not a weakness.
This is a soul tie.
In The System of Sex, Ludie Benel-Ponce reveals how sex functions on every level — spiritually, biologically, and psychologically — and why you cannot simply “get over” someone you have been sexually connected to.
With biblical teaching, neuroscience insights, personal testimony, and guided deliverance prayers, you will learn how to:
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Break ungodly soul ties and emotional attachments
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Close spiritual doors opened through sex, pornography, and masturbation
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Heal from the trauma of sexual wounds and past relationships
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Reclaim your identity, purity, and sense of self
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Prepare for a healthy, God-ordained marriage
This is not just a book — it is an exit route.
A spiritual divorce from what has attempted to own you.
A pathway into wholeness, clarity, and covenant.
God is not done with your story — He is restoring you.






E.J.L. (verified owner) –
This book really helped me take an honest look at the decisions I’ve made in the past—and the patterns I’ve repeated. More importantly, it helped me understand the consequences of those patterns so I can finally break the cycle instead of continuing it.
I’m genuinely grateful for what I’ve learned, and I can feel that this is only the beginning of a new chapter for me. If you’re ready to reflect, grow, and move differently, I highly recommend it.
Truth In Love –
Thank you so much! We’re so grateful to hear that it has blessed you.
Rachel –
The first book was an incredible. How everything happened was all God. I was at a point in my life where I knew I was going down. From having sex to watching porn. There was this hold. I would be good for a few weeks and then back into the same cycle. I was watching the podcast and Ludie mention it and I went and brought the book. I was hopeful but I literally had no idea how God would move. I fasted for three days while reading the book. I took my time because I needed to be released from this not just for me but for my bloodline. The last day God told me to call out of work to focus on the prayer and without hesitation I did, best decision ever, I spent the whole day praying that prayer. Wrote the name of the men and broke that bond. Haven’t had any urges, have not looked at men in any sexual way and have not wanted to do anything sexual immoral since He healed me from that. This was literally a life changer. Can’t wait to dive in the second edition
Truth In Love –
WHEW CHILE!!!! Why do you have me in tears! Praise God! Thank you so much for this beautiful review!